Gary, from one meditator to another, greetings from the heart. Our job is not to change someone's mind, especially these days. My son and I too are on different sides of the fence, and we simply agree to disagree. We call anything wrong when we disagree with it. I don't agree with many of your statements for example, but I'm not going to say your wrong. I also respectfully disagree with your point that there are not two sides to every story. Of course there are. We all see the world differently Gary. The way your son and my son see the world is different from yours and mine. They aren't wrong, they are entitled to their opinion and view, just like you and I are. And, to your final point, yes, simple human kindness and the willingness to listen to another with whom you disagree. Best wishes Gary. We will get through this.