You are a smart person Katydid. Yeah, I stayed because I wanted to believe he was who he said he was. That blinded me to the truth, although, like I said, I knew something was off. And, now, particularly after one of his son's wives reached out to me and filled me in on what's going on behind the family curtain--well, that put the pen in my hand. Wishing you all the best. Thanks for reading and commenting. -:)